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Michigan’s Text Etiquette

How many times have you heard the ping on your phone signifying a text, but you were too busy to respond in the moment?

You may have said to yourself that you’ll reply in a few minutes, but the text is all but forgotten until you need something from that person.

Apparently, that’s the case for plenty of Michiganders. A new study found that more than half of Americans admit to letting messages pile up — and people in Michigan contribute to that statistic significantly.

Key findings:

  • People in Michigan have the fifth most unread texts in the United States, with an average of 4.86.
  • Michigan ranks at No. 18 for the most unread emails, with an average of 8.39.
  • Michigan residents rank among the highest for considering themselves high-maintenance friends, proving they expect things like regular check-ins, calls or face-to-face interactions.
  • Across the nation, 48% of those in the study have had a relationship negatively impacted because of their slow response to messages.
  • Nationally, 65% have lied and said they “forgot to respond” to a text, but really they just didn’t feel like responding.
  • Notification bubbles on apps makes 48% of Americans feel overwhelmed.

There’s more data like who Americans ignore the most in the link here.

But what is the etiquette for text response? Proedit.com said always answer urgent texts right away; however, nonurgent texts can go a day or so without a response. The website also indicated that after 48 hours, you are looking inconsiderate or rude; but never fear, an apology for your lack of timely response should see forgiveness.

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